Archive for June, 2009

The Dilemma of Personal Responsibility

If you are serious about improving yourself and your current situation, there will come a time where you have to face yourself in the mirror with a startling recognition:
You are responsible for everything in your life. You constantly create the circumstances that form your life’s reality. Every moment, you make choices based on how you [...]

On the Passing of Michael Jackson

michael jackson with his son

I heard the news. Michael Jackson is dead at 50 years old. And then I heard it again and again. I saw the streams of people who took off from work to drive to the hospital and crowd around the door. I saw the people openly weeping on city sidewalks around the globe. And I [...]

The Importance of “It Already Happened”

this is what one million dollars looks like

Which would have the greater impact on your life right now?
1. Knowing that someone deposited $1 million into your bank account yesterday.
2. Knowing that someone will deposit $1 million into your bank account at an undetermined date in the future.
If you’re like me, chances are knowing that someone deposited money into your bank account yesterday [...]

What Do I Believe?

incense prayer sticks in sand at a temple in singapore

People ask me everyday. What do I believe? I’ve thought about this question a lot. And I think it’s something everyone should answer. In writing. There is something about writing out your beliefs that makes you question where your beliefs come from, why you have them, and what they ultimately mean to you.
Whenever I would [...]

To Do: Centering Prayer

I have found the simplest and often most effective centering prayer, and a couple of variations of it, to be breathing.
Many ancient cultures (and quite a few people I meet today) believed that the breath is the holiest part. Our breath is God, spirit, and soul.
Find a quiet place. Sit with your feet flat on [...]

My Current Spiritual Songlist

I am at the mercy of the radio gods at my satellite radio company. They select my music. But I also believe there’s just a tinge of divine intervention. Every now and then, I find myself “spiritually attracted” to a few different songs that seem to speak to me. They often come in small groups [...]

What Are You Afraid Of?

Tim Ferris at Four Hour Workweek recently posted about facing your fears. He was using this as a productivity tool and applying stoicism to business and our professional lives. In my life coaching practice, I regularly ask the question “What Are You Afraid Of?”
Facing our fears is nothing new and pretty much every self help [...]

An Open Letter to Elton Gallegly Regarding Health Care Reform

the sign outside elton galleglys office in solvang, ca

Dear Elton Gallegly and Members of the United States Congress:
I got your phone call today. Thanks for calling to let me know how you feel about health care reform in America. I really appreciate you taking the time to have someone else record a message for you and have an automated system call my cell [...]

To Do: Ho’Oponopono

temple of forgiveness

The native Hawaiian people have always been known for their generous spirits and even more genuine welcome. They literallyembrace everyone. Their spiritual practices, known as Huna, flow from the complete meaning of ALOHA.
One of the spiritual practices is called Ho’Oponopono (ho-o-pono-pono). This is the practice of healing broken relationships by making them (and ourselves) whole [...]

Review: The Winning Sage

bringing the seed of life to you

Helene Hadsell has an amazing story. She has won every contest she’s ever entered. And now, she reveals the secret of her success to you for free. Well, sort of.
At The Winning Sage, her “cryptic secrets” are revealed. And you can have it all for the low low price of just $127 $70.
I’ve got to [...]